Redefining Realistic: Life Coaching, Authenticity, and Emotional Resilience
On today’s episode, I speak with Amanda Molenaar, a former diplomat whose journey—from a turbulent childhood marked by instability and foster care, to a thriving career in international diplomacy, and ultimately to her current role as a life coach for expats—demonstrates the transformative power of resilience.
Amanda opens up about how the survival strategies she developed while navigating an alcoholic household and multiple foster families helped her in diplomacy, allowing her to "read the room" and adapt to new cultures. But in adulthood, she realized those same coping skills were hiding deep-seated insecurities and a fear of abandonment.
We discuss how suppressed emotions, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome shaped Amanda’s professional and personal life, and how the challenges of expat living can drive us to mask our true selves. Amanda candidly shares her experiences with grief, her route to emotional healing, and why making space for vulnerability—instead of muscling through—is at the heart of authentic living.
Whether you’re an expat, a high achiever, or anyone ready to shift toward a more genuine, balanced life, Amanda’s story will inspire you to ditch the mask and embrace the freedom of being seen.
Timestamps:
05:01 Inner Strength Amid Insecurity
09:18 Living with Unpredictable Parents
23:51 Embracing Fear and Acceptance
27:29 Embracing Emotions: A Coaching Insight
33:08 Understanding and Managing Anxiety
45:10 Breaking Comfort Zones for Growth
Key Takeaways:
- Your past doesn’t define you, but it equips you.
- Feeling your feelings is foundational to growth.
- Authenticity is a superpower, especially in new environments.
If you’re navigating transition, chasing stability, or living abroad, Amanda’s story might be the encouragement you need today.
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If you are an expat wanting to go on an inner deep dive, Amanda offers 1:1 coaching, serving clients globally".
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